Girls only: ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 months?

our birthdays are on back to back days. she asked me to come home with her to meet her family for our birthdays. my family is from out of state, and i told her they wanted me to come home and see them for my birthday.



i went home, but i sent her flowers on her birthday, and we went out to dinner when i got back



did i do enough? would she be upset that i didnt do enough. would this make her feel differently about me?

Girls only: ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 months?
It certainly shouldn't make her feel any diffrently about you .. And if it did , she's be pretty selfish ..
Reply:you did good. meeting the parents is not a rush.. you should take things slow..
Reply:yeah
Reply:No, your parents have a priority over her family. Any girlfriend should understand this. How would she feel if you asked her to come with you to visit your parents for her birthday. I'm sure she wouldn't agree to that. It's okay, don't sweat it.
Reply:You guys have to realize you won't always be together for holidays, this includes probably Christmas and Thanksgiving in the future. You have your own family and friends, def. need to work that out when the time comes. Don't get upset and think you didn't do enough, these times will happen and you will need to make the best of it!
Reply:2 months is not that much in my opinion.I say that she won`t be upset,after all, family comes first (most of the time).As long as u made up for it, everything would be just fine :) and a thing like this won`t change her felings for you, as long as she means them :)
Reply:do more go meet her parents
Reply:no i think you did fine. i mean she should understand that youre family is important and as long as you let her know that you really wanted to then she should understand.
Reply:i dont think so, maybe she undestands that you gotta meet ur family
Reply:Nope. I think what you did was absolutley fine! Make plans soon to go home with her for a weekend tho and meet her family. Obviously, that is important to her and she is eager to introduce you! It's a compliment! And the flowers idea was awesome!!! Well done!
Reply:thats good, at least u tried to make up for it... but u do need to meet her parents like she wanted originally
Reply:If she's not ok with it, that should be a red flag for you I'd think? You guys are only two months into things. She should understand and the fact that you did acknowledge it and do something for her should be enough. You should be fine. Good luck!
Reply:yea go meet her parents..better late then never.
Reply:You did awesome! If she is a good gf she will understand and you not even have to ask or explain anything to her!
Reply:I think you did the right thing. Now maybe for Easter you like to meet her parents and everyone go out to Church for Easter.
Reply:I think you did enough.
Reply:I think you did enough.
Reply:I think you did enough .....but may be you got to get a present to her, something more than just flowers, and dinner...I mean I know your parents wanted to be by your side, but she is your gf, and probably felt alone on her birthday... so netx time you can take her to meet your parents, and the next next time, you go to her house and meeth hers, you don't to always go to se your parents, but for now it's fine you have only dated her for 2 months, so don't worry if she let you go that means she is ok with it....but yeah you needed to get her a present lol...
Reply:I think you've done plenty. While she was probably disappointed that you couldn't be with her and her family to celebrate her birthday, she had to have understood why you went home. The flowers and dinner were plenty, she sees that you care and are truly sorry. The one thing girls hate is if guys don't even seem to care and you obviously do. If it still is bothering you, just ask her specifically about the situation. Honesty is the best. Good luck.
Reply:i think that you did enough. She has to understand that you have your family too.
Reply:Absolutely not...u did perfect...is she doesnt appreciate what u did than let her go....good job!
Reply:You did plenty. I'm sure she understands that your family is important to you, just as hers is to her. If you're not sure if you did enough, all you have to do is bring it up to her. Let her know that you do desire to meet her family and you're sorry it didn't happen this time.
Reply:pick the next important date for the two of you and plan for you two to see her parents or call her parents and explain the situation to them and take them all out to dinner or better yet invite all of them over to your house for a home cooked meal
Reply:Sounds like you made a wonderful decision. You did not forget her on her birthday, and you had to see your family on yours. It's only two months, if she can not see past that then you should let her go.
Reply:As far as I am concerned you did enough for no longer than you have been dating. As far as whether she is upset, well that is something you will have to ask her. But either way, she shouldn't feel different about you. Tell her you feel bad about not being with her on her birthday and ask if she is upset with you in anyway. Get everything out and in the open, it works for me.
Reply:No if she is any type of women she will realize that that is a good trait your a family man and if you were to make a family with her that you would be there for them. And you still did what you could for her while you were away and didnt forget when you came back. She should be very happy with you!!!
Reply:it's only been 2 months..relax...flowers and dinner were just right. Meeting the family seems Little to soon.
Reply:is her family out of town too?

because if they lived near you, maybe you should have went with her and her family on her birthday, and then flew home the next day for your birthday.



but i think you did enough. if you were dating longer, maybe not, but youve only been dating for 2 months.
Reply:She should understand. After all, she spent her birthday with her family- it would be hypocritical for her to be mad at your for doing the same.



I think you did a good job, sending her something on her birthday, and then taking her to dinner when you were back together.



Just in case she's worried that you don't want to meet her family (It's a big step that she asked you), bring up that you would love to meet them, and plan a trip.
Reply:i think you made the right decision. Having only been together for 2 months you should not turn down your trip to your family to meet hers. I definately think it was rigth, there will be plenty of time to meet her parents and the dinner and flowers were PERFECT!
Reply:well if she didnt say anything then i dont think it was too bad...plus you only been dating for two months hopefully you guys arent tooo serious yet.