So I showed up at my exgirlfriends house the morning of her birthday with flowers, coffee and a gift. I was brief, I said happy birthday when she opend the door. She was super happy to see me and gave me a really big hug and kiss on the cheek. for the 5min that i stayed there she kept on touching me. about 20 min after i left she texted me thanking me. But i didnt respond. On her birthday card i did write an invitation to dinner. I wrote her card in her favorite language (portuguese).
How long should i wait until she contacts me?
I really want to be part of her life.
Ladies, how long should i wait?
Wait for her to contact you, you did invite her to dinner. If she shows, that's good, if she doesn't show, then she's not really interested.
Reply:id say a few days. no longer than a week.
Reply:Wait forever.
Reply:so, how long has it been? all the touching and thanking you can have different meanings. It really depends on what kind of person she is in general. Is she a very nice person and just being friendly? Or does she still have feelings for you?
I don't think you should sit around just wondering when or if she contacts you. Be honest and straightforward and ask her out. If she says no, then move on.
Reply:why didn't you respond to her text when she thanked you? That was an opening for some form of communication. Now that you did not respond, everything is now is just a guessing game.
Well there is the dinner invitation, that was not addressed, if she doesn't call you in reference to that, then give her some time, and call her to see if she is interested.
Reply:It's fine to be a part of her life, but remember she is an EX for a reason.
It was very thoughtful to let her know she is thought of on her birthday.
If you are not trying to get back together with her, you did the right thing by not replying to her text. Dinner is a great start to remaining friends.
Reply:don't wait go for it
Reply:If she was touching you and then text you when you left, she seems to like you and you need to go over there NOW, bust down the door and make some love!
Reply:I think you need to just take this opportunity and not play games = why so short time at her house when you brought all that for her? Why not respond to her text message when she said thankyou?
Respond and ask her out to dinner....
Reply:Well I think you should just go for it the moment she contacts you. Just don't make any plans anytime soon. Usually Women don't like rainchecks.
Reply:Call her if she texted you, why didn't you text back? Call her and ask her when she would like to go out for that dinner date. If she wants to go out again she will answer. Good luck if she does say yes bring her roses to dinner.
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
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